Anonymous asked: I positively hate how I'm considered to be "thick". Because to society right now it's beautiful, but to my family I'm an elephant. And I have a sister who's skinny and again to society she's deemed beautiful, but to our family she's disgusting. Is it normal to feel gross in your house but perfect outside? It's like you can never actually be satisfied with how you look. I don't even think they realize that they're creating monsters by making us feel like were inadequate with ourselves.
It’s not okay to ever feel gross. No matter what other like your family or anyone thinks of you shouldn’t matter. That’s easier said than done, but as long as you’re happy with your shape that’s all that matters.